FALLEN CHILDREN

One of the hardest things to think of is children that are no longer with us. We are trying to honor as many children as possibly that have been died while in the custody of adopted parents.

We believe that at the right time, adoption is a life savor for children. We also know that adopition by a step-parent for the right reasons is also a life savor for some chidlren.

However we do not believe that adoption of any child for the purpose of taking them from loving and fit parents should never happen.

ADOPTION IS FOR UNWANTED CHILDREN – if your child has a loving and fit parent that you no longer can find a way to have a civil relationship with, please, please remember that your child may still love and need that parent. Don't make your child give up or except anyone just because that is what you want.

Your children can and will love you in a way that no one can really explain...unless you rule their life to make your ownself happy without thinking about what they want. To make their life sad and unhappy by taing a parent away from them is the one biggest mistake you will ever make in your child's life.

You could be digging a hole that you will never got out of...one that will cost you your children. Your child(ren) will go looking for that person they loved...even if you have told them untruths just to get them to forget.

If you had a bad childhood due to the doings of one parent or the other...don't make your child(ren) pay for your pain.

If you lost a parent due to the anger of the other parent and it was never fixed, please don't make your child(ren) suffer by doing the same thing to them.

Children deserve both parents and both sides of grandparents. Protect you child(ren) from the pain of losing a parent or their grandparents.

Keep Them Safe!

Don't put your child(ren) in a situation that could cost them their lives. Always put your child's welfare before your own. They depend on you to protect them and be there for them. If you find yourself in situations that you feel are unsafe for yourself and you just can't get yourself out of it...take the kids to their grandparents, allow them to be safe. If your child tells you things that you don't want to believe...trust them...check it out...be there for them. They need you to believe in them, and they may need you to protect them. Don't let your child(ren) be a victim because you couldn't believe what they were telling you.

If you know a child that has died at the hands of an adopted parent or step parent that you would like for us to honor please send all information to bessie@three-sides-to-every-story.org.

If you would like to volunteer to do research to locate stories about fallen children by the hands of adopted parents or step parents, please contact us at volunteer@three-sides-to-every-story.org.