Mother's Rights

After all we have said about the rights of everyone else, it is now time to talk about the rights of mothers.

I am a mother, the mother of a father that has lost his children because of hatred and revenge, so you might expect that I would think that mothers should have no rights. You could not be farther from the truth.

The reason this site was made and this organization was formed was to help open the eyes of EVERYONE . We believe in the rights of the children, the father, the grandparents and yes the mother. We do not feel that a child should have to give up any of them.

Mothers are the soul of the family, they are the barer of the children, and so they are a very vital part of their children's lives. But, where we have the problem is as follows:


  • Judges favor the mother, because she is the mother, not because they research the situation.
  • Attorneys would rather help the mother; cause the Judge is more likely to favor the mother.
  • If Mommie gets fired they do not take her children, no…they help her.
  • If Mommie is injured they do not take her children, no…they help her.
  • If Mommie can't buy groceries, they give her food stamps.
  • If Mommie can't pay her rent, they give her a welfare check.
  • If Mommie drinks too much, they help her through rehab.
  • If Mommie uses drugs, again they send her through rehab.
  • If Mommie has way too many boy friends, they tell her not to do it in front of the children.
  • If Mommie is abusive to her children, they put her through counseling.
  • If Mommie leaves her children home alone, they tell her not to do that again.
  • If Mommie doesn't send her children to school, as she should, they investigate the problem and offer her help.
  • If Mommie keeps the children from their Daddy, the Daddy is told, let's wait and see what happens in two weeks.
  • If Mommie turns the kids against their Daddy, but she says she would never do that , they believe her.
  • If Mommie lies on the witness stand, they will not arrest her for perjury; they say they can't get a conviction even if it is proven she lied if the Daddy is behind on support. Reason being, according to the DA's opinion, a jury will not convict a mother with three children at home. Then out of the mouth of the DA, “people lie on the witness stand everyday”.
  • If Mommie leaves Daddy, they say she just couldn't take it anymore, but if Daddy leaves her, they say he is horrible for leaving his family.
  • IF MOMMIE COLLECTS CHILD SUPPORT, BUT SPENDS IT ON THINGS SHE SHOULDN'T…LIKE DRUGS, CIGARETTES, or ALCOHOL…and if Daddy finds out and reports it…he is told…it is her money…she can do what ever she likes with it.
  • IF DADDY IS PAYING SUPPORT THROUGH THE STATE…AND MOMMIE SAYS SHE DIDN'T RECEIVE THE CHECKS…but THE STATE SAYS THEY HAVE BEEN CASHED…then Daddy needs copies of the back of the checks to see who is cashing them…but what is he told by DHR…”doesn't matter if she has cashed the checks…I have a court order that says you have to pay…I do not have a court order that says she has to cash the checks, I really don't give a d*mn what she does with them”.

So in the eyes of Daddy, if it doesn't matter if she cashes the checks, why the heck does it matter if he pays? Then let's say he continues to pay cause he loves his kids, and even after his children have been wrongfully adopted…he still continues to pay, why doesn't it matter? WHY, because that is the way Mommie wanted it.

ALL OF THE ABOVE IS THE REASON MEN ARE SO ANGRY

 ALL OF THE ABOVE IS THE REASON SO MANY CHILDREN GROW UP WITH ANGER AND TURN TO THINGS THAT MAKE THEIR LIVES MUCH WORSE THAN THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN IF THEY WOULD HAVE LET THESE CHILDREN BE WHO THEY WERE MEANT TO BE.

I could once again go on and on, but the truth of the matter is, I don't want to. I would rather just sit down and cry at a system that is so broken that a mother/grandmother has to fight for the rights of her grandchildren after divorce.

Mothers have a very hard time of things and we know they do. Mothers can hardly make ends meet sometimes, we have been there. Mothers cry themselves to sleep as often as the rain falls from the sky and we know that. We know how hard it is to be a mother in today's times; it has always been hard for mothers of divorce.

WHAT WE DO NOT UNDERSTAND – WHY DO THEY DO THIS TO THEMSELVES OVER AND OVER AND OVER? WHY DO THEY DO THIS TO THEIR CHILDREN OVER AND OVER AND OVER?

If you cannot get along with your child's Daddy, you must do something to correct the heartache, but what we are saying, why do the children have to pay for the mistakes of you and your partner?

You chose each other, and together you had this child, let your babies be part of who they are.

We would like to offer a simple fix for all concerned.

  • Allow your brain to help you pick a mate.
  • Allow your brain and your heart to help you pick your co-parent.
  • Don't blame your partner for the breakup, take half the blame.
  • If your child loves their Daddy, allow that to be their normal.

Always remember, you will never lose your child if you share them with the people that matter to them. They will love you forever. 

Don't let a broken system tear your world apart, do the right thing for you…your children, and oh yes…their Daddy too…everyone, but most of all your children will be the better for it.

Mommie has the right to do the right thing!

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